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Memorial service for Virginia Tech
By Megan Gauthier
UMass Dartmouth paid homage to the nation-wide “We Are All Hokies” day of remembrance with a memorial service held at 11:30 a.m. in the Library Browsing Area on Friday, April 20. Over 100 students and faculty members gathered to pay their respects just four days after the tragic murder of 32 members of the Virginia Tech community.
Associate Vice Chancellor for Student Affairs, Dr. David Milstone began the memorial service by stating, “We come together this morning not to discuss motives or details of what faculty did or did not do in light of this tragedy. We come together to pray and remember for those who had lost their lives.” He then proceeded to read off the names of the 32 innocent victims, students and faculty alike, who lost their lives on Monday, April 16.
A moment of silence was held to remember the victims, and Milstone willed everyone to “Let the depth of our compassion and strength of our collective faiths be with their friends, family, and community.”
Expressions of faith and the call to create a community that “empowers people to chose hope” over violence and leaves no place for “seeds of violence to grow,” as encouraged by Chancellor Jean MacCormack, both inspired attendees and forced them to consider the “possibility of violence where we thought there was none.”
UMass Dartmouth Hindu Chaplain Swami Yogatmanada also focused on our campus’ relation to the unfortunate shooting, reminding attendees that although the event happened far away from us physically, the event itself did not actually happen far away from us because “we are part of the same humanity.”
In accordance with MacCormack and Yogatamanada, Dr. Christine Frizzell, Director of Counseling Services, ruminated on the events and how each person is affected by the murders in some way, even if they don’t have any connection to anyone who lost their life. Frizzell lamented “It’s a wonderful and mysterious part of being human to feel what others are feeling. We’ve hurt for them and with them.”
All speakers expressed their desire for an end to violence. This message was particularly prevalent in Swami Yogatamanada’s recitation of a series of Sanskrit prayers, which translated to “Let all the directions be peaceful, let all the skies be peaceful, [...] let our minds be peaceful, let all power in the universe be peaceful. May all creatures be happy, may all creatures be free of pain, [...] let morally good people become peaceful and manifest divine freedom and help others reach that state.”
Student Trustee Tamara Endich also chose a prayer, this one focusing on remembrance, and using the Holocaust as a parallel for the violence that was witnessed at Virginia Tech, and also a special tribute to a victim of the shootings who had survived the Holocaust.
Christine Frizzell spoke of the fear that students and faculty must face after such tragic events, and which leave everyone questioning, “Have I done enough? Do I have the resources to prevent these kinds of things from happening?”
Yet she took on a more positive note when she quoted a personal mentor who had said to her “Hidden within every tragedy is a gift.” She conceded that at first, the quote seemed appalling to her, but she knew there was truth in it, because people always find something in their experiences to positively change their lives or the lives of others and to take action. “It doesn’t take the pain away,” Frizzell said, “but it allows us to make something good of it.”
Across the country, people responded to the shooting in a positive and constructive manner, including the UMass Dartmouth community. All attendees received maroon and orange ribbons (in honor of Virginia Tech’s school colors) and were notified that a condolences banner would be available after the memorial service throughout the day in the Campus Center, and would be mailed to Virginia Tech. Also, coordinators of UMass Dartmouth’s Relay for Life on Friday, April 20, lit luminaries and held a memorial service in honor of Virginia Tech, noting that V.T. was also conducting their Relay for Life fundraiser that same day.
The memorial service struck a chord with many attendees, who flocked to the banner at the conclusion of the service, writing messages such as “God Bless,” and “You’re in our prayers.”
Junior Biology major, Kara Maloney, was moved to tears during the memorial, and said, “I cried when they talked about how violence spreads through community. I didn’t know anyone involved, but it still hit home.”
Missy Joyce of the College of St. Rose in Albany agreed with Maloney, noting “I liked the fact that they mentioned the Koreans being unjustly represented and stigmatized by the attack, just as in 9/11 when people directed hatred toward people from the Middle East,” although she confessed that she is still “worried people will deal with grief in the wrong way instead of remembering those who died.”
However, at least for the nation-wide memorial for Virginia Tech victims, thousands of people across the country took the time to remember, to reflect, to pray, and to mourn the unforeseen tragedy of the shooting in the right way, connected by the idea that “Today We Are All Hokies.”
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