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Raising awareness around campus
Women’s Resource Center staff speaks about Sexual Assault Awareness Month
By Katie Bresnahan
“[Sexual Assault Awareness month is] basically a month every year to raise consciousness on violence against women,” said Dr. Juli Parker, Director of the UMass Dartmouth Women’s Resource Center.
Parker explained that the purpose of Sexual Assault Awareness Month is to focus on educating women and preventing sexual assaults on college campuses. To do this, the Women’s Resource Center is focusing on the twenty-fifth anniversary of “the Big Dan Rape,” which took place at Big Dan’s, a New Bedford Bar. On Tuesday and Wednesday this week, they showed the movie The Accused, which tells the story of the Big Dan rape victim.
At the end of the month the Women’s Center will host a kick ball tournament along with the UMD Peer Health Educators. This event will raise money and awareness of sexual assault. They will also host a speaker who will talk about the Big Dan incident and bystander intervention and “how important it is, as community members, to intervene if you see something happening,” said Parker.
Sherrie André, a sophomore women’s studies major who works as the Women’s Rights Advocate at the Women’s Center added that they will table for Denim Day on April 15. On Denim Day, she explained, people wear jeans to remember a girl who was raped in Italy by her driving instructor. He claimed that her jeans were too tight for him to get them off himself so she had to help him. Because of this, he claimed it was not rape and he got away with the crime.
“We’re asking everyone to wear jeans that day in solidarity with other women and rape victims and people who are working to help end sexual assault,” added Parker.
André, who is also a part of the UMD Feminist Majority Leadership Association, added that the FMLA will be doing a passive marketing campaign. They will hang posters with statistics and women’s faces. They will say things like, “This could be your mother” and “This could be your sister.”
“One in four women are raped, and instead of just saying one in four, [we are] going to put faces on it in hoping that people will see that it could be anyone,” explained André.
Parker advises women, especially students, to be very clear on their personal boundaries. She says they should know how far they are willing to go with a man, especially when they are drinking. They should also know how much they have had to drink. “Before you go out with somebody, know how far you are willing to go, so that you’re always checking yourself and being truthful to what you want,” said Parker.
André reminds students to act sympathetic if rape victims approach them. Let them talk and do not be angry. Also, persons approached by rape victims should not act like they know what the victim is going through, because she explained, they do not. She also advises students to listen and not try to give advice.
To protect themselves from sexual assault, Parker recommends that women “be in touch with the buddy system. If you go to a party with a group of friends, you make agreements that you’re going to leave together.” Parker and André recommend dating and not just hooking-up, walking with keys between the knuckles, taking different routes when driving home and not putting whereabouts in an away message or on Facebook.
Both Parker and André advocate women learning to defend themselves. “I think that taking a self-defense class, especially taking RAD on campus, really helps build your self-esteem so that you tend to walk with confidence, you tend to do more things with confidence and you’re less likely to be a target if you look really confident,” said Parker. She added that self-defense causes women to be more aware of their surroundings.
“We really need men to be a part of this. Men need to be equally outraged about sexual assault and violence against women as women are,” stated Parker. She also offered advice for men. First, Parker advised men not to have sex with drunk women. She also said, “Men need to hold each other accountable. They need to be better about supporting each other to be good men. I think we’d be in a better position if men were more apt to do that.”
Parker also brought up the use of sexual assault hotlines and websites. The first of these sights was Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network (RAINN) which can be found at www.rainn.org. There is also an anonymous tracking form for sexual assaults at the Women’s Resource Center website. The purpose of this site is to get on-campus assault statistics without people having to report their assaults to Public Safety. This form can be found at http://www.umassd.edu/publicsafety/sexualassaultform/sexualassaultanonymousreport.cfm.
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