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UMass Dartmouth hosts AIDS Benefit
 Above, left: Crowds gather while waiting to get into the AIDS Benefit. Above, right: Selective 8 dancers perform at the AIDS Benefit, held in the Main Auditorium on October 6.
The 6th annual AIDS benefit
By Chris Donovan
AIDS is a disease that weakens the immune system sometimes to the point that the carrier faces life threatening problems. The disease cannot be cured, only temporarily controlled and treated. There is a lot of focus on not just finding a cure for AIDS, but also helping prevent the virus from spreading. This past Saturday, October 6, 2007, Sigma Phi Rho presented its sixth annual AIDS benefit.
The show served as a way to “Promote AIDS awareness through various speeches, poems, and other forms of expressive art.” The event hosted almost 500 attendees. The proceeds generated from the benefit are going towards funding for AIDS-related projections in education, prevention, and care. There were tables set up with information to help educate people about HIV, AIDS and safe sex practices.
This year’s show was hosted by “Uptown Kevin Brown,” a comedian and actor who’s appeared on “Last Comic Standing,” “Confessions of a Teenage Drama Queen” and who currently stars on NBC’s hit show “30 Rock.” He is a brother of the Sigma Phi Rho fraternity and has been the host of the AIDS benefit since it was started six years ago. His upbeat spirit and constant audience interaction made for a smooth transition between acts.
The AIDS benefit runs like a variety show, with many different types of acts that all focus on the common theme of AIDS awareness.
This year’s acts included singers, dancers, poets, comedians, and a jazz band.
The night did shift its focus from fun to serious when motivational speaker Lisa Tiger took the stage to talk about her tragic life which includes her own struggle with AIDS. She made it very clear that although she has AIDS, she has not let that stop her from living her life.
If you would like more information on the prevention, and/or treatment of AIDS, students can contact UMass health services at extension 8982.
Keynote speaker Lisa Tiger: Trials and tribulations
By Megan Gauthier
Acclaimed motivational speaker and HIV/AIDS educator Lisa Tiger was brought to UMass Dartmouth’s campus by the DOSA Programming Committee, Frederick Douglass Unity House, Women’s Resource Center, Health Education, SAIL, Student Affairs and Campus Services.
Tiger’s visit included talking to various classes throughout the day on October 4 and 5, holding an open presentation in the Library Browsing Area on October 4, meeting students and faculty at a reception dinner on October 5, and acting as a keynote speaker for Sigma Phi Rho’s AIDS Benefit on October 6.
Tiger, a member of the Muscogee Nation, has been involved in AIDS education since she first learned she was infected with the virus in 1992 at the age of 25. She has earned many awards for her AIDS awareness advocacy and dedication to raising abandoned and abused children, as well as her advocacy of the rights of women and minorities.
Her life has been fraught with emotional distress. When she was a child, her father committed suicide, putting a strain on her whole family.
In 1988, Tiger contracted HIV at the age of 23 from a boyfriend in her hometown of Muscogee, Oklahoma. She also suffers from Parkinson’s Disease, which is a disorder of the central nervous system that impairs motor skills and speech.
Despite her personal hardships, in 1996 she applied for and was granted custody of four Lakota (Sioux) orphans — siblings ages 3, 5, 6 and 7 — raising them as her own.
In 1999 Tiger’s HIV turned into full blown AIDS, the same year her brother Chris was shot and killed. This tragedy and the difficulties surrounding the conviction of his killer led Lisa to become an advocate for victims of violence.
Lisa married Pueblo potter Diego Romero in 2003, and the couple longed to have a biological child of their own. Romero and Tiger chose to use artificial insemination as the method for the conception of their daughter, Cornelia Margaret TaLadu Dana (Crickett). Tiger underwent a very difficult pregnancy and almost lost her life, but luckily, Crickett was born HIV-free and completely healthy.
Since then, Tiger has remained active, exercising every day. As a result, even though she has had AIDS for nearly 10 years, she has not even suffered from a common cold since Crickett’s birth, and is physically fit. Upon seeing Lisa, you would never guess that she suffered from any kind of physical ailment.
She also remains emotionally astute and positive, even though one of her adopted daughters was murdered only a month ago by a jealous boyfriend. Tiger was left with the responsibility of raising her daughter’s one year old baby, along with the three adopted children still alive, and her own biological daughter.
Says Tiger of the ordeal “I’m not the one who decides how things work out. I’m just the one who has to deal with all of it,” and she attempts to deal with everything in a positive manner, despite her inclination to fight fire with fire.
Tiger spoke of the anger in her youth, and how she wanted revenge on anyone who hurt her or her family. She admitted that it was hard not to want to kill her daughter’s murderer for what he had done when she sat across from him in his jail cell, but was reminded of her aspiration to be forgiving. She laments, “I never got to forgive the guy who infected me with HIV, so I need to be able to forgive others now to make up for it.”
Tiger’s goals are to be “a saint and a comedian,” and she dreams of starring on Oprah and sharing her trials and tribulations with a national audience. She delights in touching people with her story and her strength, noting that through it all, she has become stronger in spirit and has come to know her purpose in life.
“Through it all,” Tiger quipped at the end of her story, “I have always kicked butt,” and it is this perseverance and personal reconciliation that shine through — proving that there is light at the end of any tunnel.
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